If You Don’t Love Your Money, Someone Else Will

Working Girl 1988

Money is a beautiful thing.

It ensures you have choices. It empowers you to help others. It helps you feel safe. It allows you to follow your dreams and live your life ‘on purpose’.

Why then do people say such bad things about money? Why are we made to feel bad for wanting to make more of it? Why do we judge others for having too much of it? Why don’t we talk about it? Why do so many women in business claim ‘it’s not about the money’?

Of course, it’s about the money.

Money makes everything easier including helping others.

Money is not evil, it has no motive.

Money is simply a tool we can choose to apply however we want!

What do YOU choose to use your money for? Do you have a dream? Do you have people you want to provide for? Do you have goals and ideas you’re itching to make come true?

Let’s take a look at the 1988 movie Working Girl (pictured). There was the heroine Tess who had the best intentions and values. Then there was her opportunistic boss Katherine who took Tess’s ideas and passed them off as her own. Who would YOU rather receive the executive pay and bonuses?

Money amplifies your intentions and your values. Money in the hands of women like you can therefore only be a good thing.

So what’s holding you back?

Are you charging your worth? Do you find yourself offering discounts before someone has even asked?

You are ALLOWED to make money. You are ALLOWED to make LOTS of it.

Remember, money is simply an exchange of value. What are you giving in return? Look at the value of your giving from the other person’s point of view. I assure you, they probably value your service or product more than you do. Just because something comes easy to you, doesn’t mean it’s easy for them. We each have our own gifts and talents. Shine a light on yours and learn how to RECEIVE.

Women are very good at giving but not so good at receiving.

Try this…

Become aware of where you’re blocking your ability to receive.

Next time someone offers to pay for you or offers you a compliment, instead of deflecting and pushing back, try saying something along the lines of ‘thank you, I receive you’.

Next, you can try the practice of receiving in your business (or at your next pay review):

• When someone offers to pay you, ‘receive’ it with thanks.

• When someone asks your prices, state them clearly and proudly.

The energy you give to this is always felt by the other party. If they sense you don’t believe in your own worth, they won’t believe it either!

You are just as deserving of wealth as anyone else on the planet, ESPECIALLY if you are a good person.

There’s an endless supply of money to be made. You having more of it does not reduce the amount available to others. Know your worth. Believe your worth. Receive your worth and you will open the door to more.

Get in flow with money and make it your friend. Even better, make money your lover.

If you don’t love your money, someone else will. Money simply follows those who care for it!

So please, start talking to money NICELY. Start calling it into your loving arms.

The world needs more wealthy women.

Love, Julia

If you’re ready to transform your relationship with money and put systems in place to build wealth book a free chat with me or even better, take my Money Course. Every woman who’s taken this course has made more money and dramatically improved her relationship with money. You can too.

I wouldn’t wait. This is too important. Start and the pressure is dropped. I look forward to meeting you.