He's the Housewife I Always Wanted to Be
Once upon a time, there was a divorced mother of two trying to make her way in a man’s world.
She dared to consider it might be possible to ‘have it all’. To be a great mother, to make a serious amount of money doing what she loved and do it calmly with grace, style, and ease.
This woman was me.
During the divorce from hell, I’d come to a crossroads in my life. I’d been diagnosed with cancer, I’d lost my identity as a wife, and even though I was a finance professional, I found myself struggling to make basic financial decisions.
It was time to decide. Do I fight or do I flight?
Did I want to live my life in fear or, did I want to take the chance that I could FLY?
If I could fly… what would that look like?
I dared to go inwards and ask myself:
‘What is it that I actually want out of life?’
‘If there were no limits, what would my desired life look and feel like?’
‘What kind of woman would I be?’
‘How is that different from the woman I am today?’
I’d heard that utilising Money Mindset, Vision Boards, and Inspired Action could work miracles. I immersed myself in books and courses on the subjects of manifesting and clearing money blocks.
I cleared my heaviest limiting beliefs about money and self-worth.
I discovered that the Universe ALWAYS wants to bring you your desires. In fact, making desirable goals is why we’re here! It’s how we grow. Surprisingly though, not many of us allow ourselves to even THINK about what those desires might be, let alone write them down!
Why? Limiting beliefs and Fear. WE are the only ones holding ourselves back from achieving our desires.
Anyway, back to the story…
Once I had my desire list, I took inspired action to set it in motion and before long I had achieved at least half of the list with ease! It blew me away how quickly life brought all of this to me, but HOW the last of it came together is where the magic is and THIS is the story I’d like to share with you today.
It was the last weekend before I was about to go in for major surgery - breast cancer.
I was in surprisingly good form. I’d done a lot of self-work and I had this infallible belief that I was through the worst and life WAS working out for me now. I had decided to fly.
I’d already launched the business of my dreams, was surrounded by true friends, owned a brand new Range Rover, lived in a beautiful home, had connected with my children, had built a portfolio of wealth, and was hopefully about to become cancer-free!
I had no idea how the rest of my list would come to me - especially my man request. Who’d be attracted to a woman with the big C??
On this last weekend before my surgery, a friend invited me to drinks and voila, there he was - everything remaining on my list in the form of… a man (or a unicorn, but we’ll get to that later).
In one fell swoop, the universe brought me a loving partner, a personal chef, a fitness trainer, a driver, AND an immaculate housekeeper in the form of a man. He does it all and he loves it.
How lucky am I?!
This all happened very quick. Days after meeting him, I’m lying in a hospital bed. Positive. Happy. Blessed. And very, very sore. I am surrounded by awesome friends, family, and this gift of a man the universe delivered me - let’s call him The Unicorn.
The Unicorn came to see me every day, brought me flowers, gave me foot massages, and conversed with me in the middle of the night when I couldn’t sleep because of the pain. The nurses asked, “where did you find this unicorn?” I explained I’d only met him a few days before surgery and he was a gift from the universe to get me through.
Just when I asked myself ‘Can this get any better?’ It did. He’s loving, driven, helpful, and… he has a six-pack. Yes, ladies, my unicorn is fit and fabulous.
I used to hear stories like this all of the time but never believed them - cancer sufferer gets a new lease on life, learns to love herself just as she is and the BOOM, the life of her dreams falls into place!
Ladies, I’m living proof. It IS possible to have it all. What’s stopping you from asking for yours?
Here I stand today, cancer-free with all the dreams on my list made reality. My Unicorn is the housewife I always wanted to be but couldn’t - because I’m busy creating an empire that empowers women to become even more brilliant with money.
The moral of the story is:
You have to authentically love yourself before anyone else can love you. Self-worth is a prerequisite for happiness, health, AND wealth.
You have to voice your innermost desires in order to bring them from the metaphysical to the physical. Write them down.
Your goals need you as a conduit in order to come to life. So follow them up with inspired action!
Anything is possible. You are only limited by your beliefs.
Love,
Julia
Does this resonate?
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